You yell, although you know yelling just makes things worse. Something you don’t mean to say comes out of your mouth. How many times have you experienced your partner saying that something should not make you blow your lid, but it does? You fly off the handle. The focus tends to be on fixing a detail or a problem. Sometimes in marriage, spouses tend to focus on the details. Remember that it is okay to be differentįirst, Let’s talk about how focusing on details and negative things can lead to LESS GRACE… How can focusing on the details of conflict lead to less grace?.Know your spouse well and be open to being known.Attempt to be understanding and listen attentively.Stop thinking it is about you and don’t make it about yourself.I have outlined the following ways to build grace into your marriage: To grow a positive outlook in marriage you can focus on grace. If you want a healthier, more positive relationship, get away from the negative focus.
Sometimes that change must come from within us.Ĭhanges in relationships that seem to be so toxic can come from within you. When negativity is all you can see in a marriage, you need a change. It can be hard to see the forest through the trees as the old saying goes. Sometimes it gets hard to see hope in the future. I find that I focus so much on the negative that I struggle to see the positive aspects of life. Have you ever felt like you can’t get away from negativity? It seems to be all around us.
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